I wrote this blog before the tragic loss of Ashley "AJ" Jewell, Kandi's fiancée. I am truly at a loss for words. My heart is incredibly heavy. I had the pleasure of spending time with AJ during the filming of season two. He was an incredible man, an incredible father and he will truly be missed. Although we as cast mates have had our share of drama, Lisa, NeNe, Sheree and I have come together as a team and will continue to do so to get Kandi through this difficult time. Please keep my friend Kandi, her family, AJ's children and his family in your prayers.
Before I begin I want to apologize again for missing Kandi’s performance. I don’t want her or anyone to think that I would purposely miss her big day. You’ll notice on the show that I don’t do a lot of going out at night because I don’t have a sitter at night. I’m a single Mom; it’s just me when the lights go out. My daughter got sick and I was FREAKING OUT about all of that swine flu business. She had unusual symptoms and I just couldn’t leave her and I couldn’t get a sitter. Again, SORRY! Please forgive me.
Now on to Lisa “Me Too” Wu. I just had to roll my eyes when she said that I probably had a disease. I’m sure if I had one, she’d want one too. There’s nothing original about the woman, she just runs around town copying off of every one else. I’m just waiting for her to put a song on iTunes. You know it’s coming! LOLOL!
Hi,Kim,i'm zara from the philippines. i've been watching your show,it is telecast here monday to friday at 12 noon via channel 9. though a bit late (the airing) i've been a big fan of your show, i loved the class, the drama, the friendship, being true and sincere. I love the way you love your children, i am too, is a mother of two boys, ages 19 and 12..I admire you the way you value a friend..more power to your show, more power to your singing career.
God Bless You
Kim, Im loving the Robe you wore where can I get it from too cute.
My heart goes out to kandi and aj's family and kids as well. You all have got to stop the drama and be their for kandi because losing someone is really hurtful.
Hi Kim,
Really love you, Kandi and NeNe on the show. You all
have great friendships, really hope you guys get along for
next season. Thoughts, prayers and love to Kandi and AJ's
family and kids. You have lots of strength, wish we could
meet Big Poppa, wish he could really be there for you!! We
just want you to be happy. You are all great to watch, Hope
everyone forgives NeNe her life has been too rough, compassion
and love will keep you all close friends, harmony is what you
each deserve in your life. Rise above, you are a great mom to
your daughters,lots of love to you and all the wives for being
there for Kandi. Can't wait for next season. You are the bomb,
stay cool, don't take anyones opinions too seriously!!! lots
of love to you and your girls!!! love ms blue
I NEED to know the designer of the crystal pumps you wore to Sheree's fashion show!! Please tell me. I have 1 more space left in my 120 pair shoe closet and I have to have these shoes!!
Hi Kim, I have never missed an episode of TRHW Of ATL, You and Kandi are my favorites! I don't like to get personal, because I don't personally know you, but I love your personality, your sense of humor, and the strength you must have to be a single parent. You Go Girl!! Love your song!!!! Can't wait for next season!
Gloria
Hi Kim,
I love you on the show keep your frindship with kindi she is the good one.
KIM you are the reallest gurl. i love you so much gurl you so damn straight up. Kandi is the same ..REAL RECOGNIZE REAL thats why you gotta never turn ur back on kandi. give her a hug for all of us. OUR HEARTS ARE WITH U KANDI!! i love you two!!
Dear Kim
I admire your determination hang in there girl only the strong survive! Kandi my heart goes out to you love ya girl keep ya head up god loves you and so do i
Dee
Kim,
I just wanted to let you know that i am a fan of yours and Kandi. Be a good friend to Kandi because she is the only one of them all who has not passed judgement on you and is taking you for face value. Please tell her that she is in my prayers and life is not always fair but with the help of god we get through. I hope that you are able to get your wig line off the ground and have much success.
God Bless!
Hey Kim,
I'm glad that u stood ur ground and was there for Kandi. I say keep up the good work! I was wondering how and if I could get in contact with Rose? I'm at a crossraods in my life and I need some serious answers. Please help if u can
Kandi, I hope you will fine sunshine and peace from the untimely passing of AJ. You are very positive and I know peace, love, memories, and time will heal your heart. Kandi I stand with you during this difficult moment in time. God be with you, AJ's children and family!
Kim you are the BOMB! I would stop watching the show as well if you ever leave. It would have been nice to have met you when I lived in Atlanta...
Hello Kim,
if they ever take you off the show i would stop watching it.you are so for real. You and Candi are such sweethearts. I'M so glad for the hookup.You are really a true friend and a lot of fun to watch.
jean
Dear Kim,
you are a true angel. Please always be there for Kandi, she may never admit it but, she needs you.don't ever give up. you, lisa and Kandi are always in our prayers here at Pittson congrergational church, Pittson,Maine. stay strong and support each other, no matter what. Valerie :)
Hello Kim,
Just love you to death! Thank you for being real and standing by your friend during her time of need. Just think you are great! I do have a question for you though. I was wondering if you were interested in donating one of your wigs to a good cause? If so I would be honored to be a recipient.
God bless,
Laura
Kim, you are hilarious girl. keep the haters talking ! big poppa is a very lucky guy to have such a strong and beautiful women. tardy for the party is deff a number one and my ringtone foreverr. keep it up girlll.
<3 brittany.
You have handled yourself with so much class through all this drama with the other women. Continue to do so...good luck to you and your girls!
Kim,
You are fabulous and honest and real. Keep it up. P.S. I think you are right on about Lisa coming out with a record too....I already read somewhere that she's trying to do something in the media as well....hmmm. Kim stay beautiful inside as well as out.
Love,
Cj in Chicago
Kim, I know that you have a hard time with some of the members of the show since a few of them constantly say you are a liar. Well, I want you to know that all viewers have your back!! When those people look back on the show they will realize how awful they look since the truth does come out!! Keep strong and know that your viewers are all on your side!!
I love the robe Kim wore in last week's episode while she was getting her hair done. Does anyone know who makes it?
I watched you on the Fox Reality Really Awards! Congratulations on receiving the Fashionista award! You were adorable too in that skit about Tardy For The Party (late for a date, lol!) with Lance, really cute! You looked beyond beautiful and more than that, you looked SO HAPPY!
Kim, Out of all your cast mates I believe you and Kandi are the only women who really try to stand by what they say. The both of you try to keep the backbiting to a minimum. We all are guilty of saying things we regret later while in the heat of the moment. You and Kandi are the only cast members that don't give women a bad name. Remember Arrogance is not becoming to anyone. Continue to try to be the best roll model you can be for your daughters.Be well.
Kim!!
I have a lot of respect for you trying to ignore all the negative comments you receive from your other castmates. Keep your head up chica!!!
kim loved you'r shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! where can i get them? also loved the ring big poppa gave you, i want that as well and the watch.!!!!!where can i get those item and who are the designers? please write back.
You are a good friend.
I just want you to know that no matter what we see on this show I can tell that you have a good heart that is easily broken. Stick by Kandi and get rid of anything that is gonna cause you pain. Have a blessed one sweetie!
Danielle
Hey Kim, I adore you on the show. I Would love to get a wig from your new line. The one I want is the one you wore to Kandis' engagement party! Its beautiful, and I love the reaction you had when he put it on you, thats how I want to feel. So please send me info on it. I may or may not be able to afford it but I sure would like to try, it would mean the world to me.
Kim,
My heart goes out to everyone on the show for the loss of AJ, may God help Kandi and his children's hearts heal, but never forget what he was in your life.
On another topic, as I was watching the show that just recently aired about how many wigs you go through in a month (they do wash) and as I recently diagnosed breast cancer patient faced with the prospect of losing my hair; I would hope that you find some way to donate your wigs to those less fortunate.
I love the show and look forward to season 3.
I watch the show when ever I get a chance. I enjoy watching you Kim your interesting. Even though you live this lavish life theirs something really down to earth about you.... Onto another subject I noticed you have very nice skin and it looks very healthy would u mind sharing the skin care products you use? Take care girly hope to hear from you!
Hey there Kim please be there for Kandi she is going to need you and anytime you need a Nannie I would love to be there for you. I love you on the show you are great and I love your hairdresser also he is great. Do you think you can hook me up with one of those wigs? I think you are going to do great at getting that wig line off the ground I wish you all the luck in the world.
I send my deepest sympathy to AJ and Kim how are with Big poppa Congrats on the engagement Love u !
OMG please watch crish crocker on youtubes video about you! He is Team Kim all the way and so am I!!!!!!! Love ya
Kim,
I am sorry for your loss of your friend AJ. Please be as strong as you can for Kandi. She needs a true friend and family. You and Kandi have something real. Don't let the other housewives mess that up. Don't bring all of the drama into your friendship. Kandi needs you.
About your wigs, good luck with your new wig line. I hope you can do something that is affordable for cancer patients. Keep up the good work.
Sincerly,
Joy
Hi Kim, Just want to say I really love your wigs. I have extremely thin hair & think a wig would do the trick. I find myself on the internet looking at wigs all of the time, but I don't have the courage to buy one. I really wish wigs could make a big come back. What is your suggestion for starting to wear wigs? Should I get one about the same length as my natural hair to start? Any wig I put on would be a drastic difference because my natural hair is so thin, but what would you suggest.
Hey beautiful lady, just want to say I love you and I think youve really grown alot since last season "WISER" but I TRULY hope you and NENE can work it out, you BOTH are fun to watch when your getting along!!Also I was watching the show last week when you got your new beautiful wig "looked great" and I think it would be wonderful if you donated the ones you dont wear anymore to a charity?
I lost my brother and his wife to murder last year.I grieve for Kandi and A.J.and their families.Be her friend,Kim. On a lighter note I LOVE YOUR SONG.Kandi is a genius.Ya'll are the bomb.Bless ya'll.
KIm,
We are huge fans of the show!! You are so kind hearted on the show, how dare some of the ladies on the show ..like sheree who think her shit doest stink.. Fyi your hair or wig looks so good. Who gives that its a wig. We all either get extensition, wear hair pieces or wigs. They are jealous because they can't get there hair to look as good as yours..we love how you are on the show.. Don't chnage... Kendall and elyse
Hey Kim,
You don't deserve to be treated badly. (Getting your wig almost pulled off.) You are a very wonderful person, friend, and mother. Fly above the haters. LOL
Your so amazing!!! Keep up the good work!
P.S. I'm looking forward to buying your single!
Hello Kim
just wanted to let you know that I love the wigs hope that you make them available for everyone. I would also like a contact name and phone number for your wig styliest if possible I also have a friend that has some medical problems and would very much be interested in your wigs.And if no one has told you this already you add a lot of class to the show. P.S someone gave me a perm and all of my beautiful hair fall out in the sink.
I TO LOVE THE WIGS DO YOU GIRL BUT I WOULD REALLY LOVE TO SEE THE REAL THING JUST ONCE WE ARE YOUR FANS WE DON'T CARE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE.
Kim, I had to send you a compliment on Kandi's party. This will be such a meaningful and special memory. It was also refreshing to see you and Kandi and Lisa and Sheree so happy.Great job. the new wigs are gorgeous-keep all the balls in the air-ha...your the best.
kim, wishing the best to you and your family
Kim Love The Wings Keep Up The Great Work Love You
HI KIM.....JUS WANTED TO ENCOURGE U TO CONTINUE TO STAND UR GROUND WHEN IT COMES TO NENE,,,IM A FAN OF THA SHOW AND I FIND MI SELF DEFENDING U ALL THA TIME....PICK UR FRIENDS WISELY..CAUSE WITH FRIENDS LIKE NENE..LOL..WHO NEEDS ENEMIES~LOL
Kim,
Why not donate your used wigs to a reputable womens/childrens cancer society. It would be a great way of showing appreciation for the care you received during your own cancer scare. Contributing your used wigs would definitely place a smile on a child or adult stugging w/ cancer. THINK ABOUT IT!
Dear Kim,
Just saw the show last night when you told the expense of
you wigs daily. Could those old wigs be donated to cancer
patients. My Mom died of breast cancer a few years back
and was always trying new wigs, but they were all so hot,
that she ended up just going without. We just put bigger
earrings on her and she was adorable.
Anyway it's just a thought, enjoy the show, girlfriends
are great and when things get tuff you all will hang together. Later, Suki
Kim, keep you head high! You are a beautiful, strong, and an intelligent woman. And people say negative things because they are unhappy in their own lives or they want something to talk about. Hey either way your name is in their mouths!
You are awesome! Dont let anyone put you down. I love both you and Kandi!!
Kim, I like you a lot. I think that you are real and everything comes from your heart. Don't let what others say drag you down, that would only be giving them the upper hand. I was really happy when you and Kandi became friends, she is such a sweetie. One thing you might want to consider is that when you feel compelled to say something negative or letting loose with a dig against one of the other wives, show them how much stronger and what a better person you are by holding back. Believe me I know it is hard if not almost impossible, but you will find yourself feeling so much better!
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